The reason I have included what is in my view, a basic and normal human need, is that many of us have forgotten to recognise it, given our very busy and hectic lives.
We definitely need to be happy and satisfied in ourselves, as it were, and know that we are valuable and important as we are.
This may seem very obvious to many of you, but there are a few of us who can benefit from being reminded about this. Please do not feel in any way embarrassed or offended by me mentioning this point as I genuinely feel that it does make a difference to us all to be reminded of this point from time to time.
I have found that from my experience in life, being of the beleif that I can do anything I set my mind to, I have been able to overcome many obstacles and prove to myself, beyond a doubt, that anything is possible.
Thje real secret is to kinow that you can be as you wish, when you believe that I simply Can!
When we want something, or better still desire something, we need to expect that we will have it. Do we still need to work towards it? Certainly, yes, however, we need to also expect it in our hearts. In other words, we need to have positive outcomes in our minds that we will get what we want. It is about knowing in our hearts that we will have what we want.
To best illustrate this example, let us imagine a cat and a mouse. The cat has an ability to sit patiently for hours on end if necessary, because it know that it will get what it wants sooner or later. When a cat sees a mouse behind a piece of furniture, it knows the mouse will come out eventually. It is just a matter of time before re that happens, and for this reason, the cat will wait. There is no doubt or hesitation in the cat's mind. It may seem an odd example, but I feel it illustrates the point really well.
Now, applying this to your life, consider the things you want, the big things. Do you know for certain in your mind that you will definitely get what you want? I know this may be a tough question for some of you, but it is important to answer this one well, as it is a key to your overall success. When you have an unmovable desire, and belief, as well as expectation that your desire will manifest, you have already as well as created it. The reason for this is that we need to create things in our minds first before we can have them materially. This is a fundamental law of the universe. I can assure you these methods work, as they have been proven time and time again.
What does this mean? Quite simple. You most certainly will have many desires. In fact, if for any reason you do not, I really do suggest you take the time to sit down, and write a list. Just start with all your dreams. It does not how hard you think they may be! The whole idea here is to decide what you really want out of your life. Do not allow yourself to judge at this point. Rather, be honest with your true desires,. I say this as this is the only way to really move ahead. You are not thinking about how you will do what you want at this stage. You are just thinking about actually doing something to reaslly make a difference in the world, and being genuine and true to yourself. By doing this, you will be better prepared to face the next step.
I know it can be hard to get your head around this, if this is a new idea, but essentially, before you can do anything, you need to know what you want to do. It's just like driving a car. You need to know where you are, so you can follow a map to where you want to go. We all have only one life. Take it by the horns and go for it.
This is the concept of 'I Can"! You can do anything you set your mind to if you truly desire it. You are also entitled to all the abundance the world has to offer. You simply need to learn how to accept it. I know what I am talking about as it took me a while to transform from a shy, no confidence in myself person to the person I am today, who is self employed, and helps thousands of people achieve their dreams, as well as developing office systems for others and helping them in the online world of technology.
I have found that when I was desperate for a particular outcome, that lessened my success rate, but when I was focused, and not concerned, but focused, I was more easily able to achieve my desired results and was really happy with the effected outcomes. I am hoping to point out the same point for you. Be determined, but not desperate.
Be focused and keen.
Visualise your desired outcome, and you will see the results you want!