The reason I have included what is in my view, a basic and normal human need, is that many of us have forgotten to recognise it, given our very busy and hectic lives.
We definitely need to be happy and satisfied in ourselves, as it were, and know that we are valuable and important as we are.
This may seem very obvious to many of you, but there are a few of us who can benefit from being reminded about this. Please do not feel in any way embarrassed or offended by me mentioning this point as I genuinely feel that it does make a difference to us all to be reminded of this point from time to time.
I have found that from my experience in life, being of the beleif that I can do anything I set my mind to, I have been able to overcome many obstacles and prove to myself, beyond a doubt, that anything is possible.
Thje real secret is to kinow that you can be as you wish, when you believe that I simply Can!
I think this is a very important point to note, in that we really all do have the resources to be very successful, and tackle any challenge that falls our way. Please note I have deliberately mentioned the word 'Challenge", rather than problems. You could suggest this is pure pedantics and symantics, but I am working to point out that the way we think affects our outer ability to deal with the things that life throws our way.
It is often as simple as learning not to react, but rather to respond. I am certain I have written about this important issue before, and feel it is very important to understand the fact that we can train our thinking to deal better with situations that occur. No one has yet been able to think clearly when they are panicking, and thus, I encourage cool, calm, and collected thought- reflection if you prefer.
Now, whilst I understand this is easy to say, I try to quiet my mind at night, before I go to sleep and then, I start to think about any issues that I want to have answers to. This has proven to be a fantastic way to get to the bottom of some issues, provided I allowed myself to remain calm. It also takes practice to reach a point where I was getting better at it. You may be very good as soon as you start, or it may take a little longer. See how you go.
Effectively, another way to look at it is to Erase All Thoughts of Doubt!
Erase All Thoughts of Doubt
Concurrently with the above statements, you need to eliminate any doubt in your mind about your abilities. I understand you may not know how to achieve every step of a desired project or dream, but believing that you will find the way is critical to your success. Any trace of doubt can cause a massive rift to develop between your desire and reaching the goal. You really do need to know what you want, and have a burning desire of surety. This is intertwined with the faith issues we were talking about earlier.
I wish you to take the day to reflect on all you really want, deeply, and then prepare yourself for an awsome journey- You have what it takes and more.