Forgiveness- A Shift in Perception

Forgiveness is one of those emotions that can move mountains and clear massive boulders from in front of us. However, we need to establish some ways that work to forgive others without having to actually say anything to them directly. Yes, I did say that.

Let me explain a bit here. When things happen to us, sometimes the person who has wronged us knows it, and in some cases, they may not even be aware they have wronged us. As it turns out, it does not really matter, because what actually happens is that we create a great deal of anger, potentially, in ourselves. At this point, we start to internally self destruct. The anger and frustration is lie a cancerous ball developing in us, and we need to understand this phenomenon, to thus control it. 


How often have you found that you have created a situation in your mind, much bigger than the original issue ever was? Be honest. This is not about me- it's about you solving your grievances and moving on, The only way to really move on is to be determined to be clear and effectively erase all the hurt, the anger and the annoyances in our lives.

 

I even know this is easy to say sometimes, but we need to take responsibility here. I call it living above the line, where instead of blaming anybody for anything, we concentrate on the way we react, or better still, respond. I know I have written on the issue of responding before, because it is so important. You need to make sure you are responding and also thinking.


Try this on for size:-


Take a seat, and actually allow yourself some quiet time, and take a blank piece of paper (or more?) and start writing all your grievances, with past, and present issues and people. Put it all on paper. Be honest here as no one else will see this paper. Just get it all out as it were, and write everything that has ever wronged you or you feel angry about. 


After wards, write something along the lines of "I openly forgive and let all this hurt go. I hold no further resentment to anything or anyone".


The above is a very powerful process. After all that, burn the paper and do something else. By doing this process every few months or even weeks if you feel like it, you will develop a habit of emptying all the negative emotions from your system. It can change your life in amazing ways. Just see for yourself after trying it out. 


I learnt this technique from both Catherine Ponder's books and also from the Laws of the universe.

When All Seems Impossible- Then What?

I know there are times when it all seems like everything is just too hard. Many of us have had days like that. However, I want to talk about the importance of centering and recognizing that we can actually meditate through the process of difficulty. I have written an article on the subject here, which goes into considerable detail. However, for the point of this entry post, I want to say that when it all seems to be getting too hard, it can be beneficial to quietly mediate. I know this may seem the last thing on some of your minds, but think about like this- Our subconscious mind often has the answers to many problems, and will present the answers, when we are able to quiet ourselves. When you first start, it may be quite difficult to do, but it does come with practice. In fact, it gets easier and more effective as time progresses.

 

It takes time and effort to master this skill, but as I have said in an article, it is about learning to respond instead of reacting to problems and concerns.

I have literally found that answers do come in time. It may not be instant, but with practice, it does become a more reliable response for difficult questions.

 

In addition, if you are so inclined, I have found and read that prayer is very effective too. I am not a religious person, per sé, but I do believe in a higher power, and there are enough studies to prove that prayer does work. The secret is to not only pray when you need help, but rather to develop an ongoing, and regular faith. It is like a habit, that is stronger after regular use, rather than an occasional sting now and again.

 

 

   To also recognize that you can, I recommend the book, I Can.

Elevating Yourself to your highest level and more… Get Rid of Worry!

Having experienced worry, I can assure you it is one of the most irrelevant and useless of emotions. I understand it is a regular intruder in many people's lives, and I hope to help you eliminate this scourge from your existence.

 

Why, you may ask, get Rid of Worry?

Essentially, it is the most useless of emotions, that robs us of peace of mind, our tranquility, and literally helps to reduce our effectiveness in our daily lives and goals.

 

I can say this from very personal experience, and it is with great effort, desire, and dedication that I have moved myself above this point in my life.

 

I know that we can suffer from worry for many reasons including, but in no way limited to issues of finance, love, work, and anything else under the sun. Please understand that I appreciate that there can be times where we are uncertain, but recognising this, and applying other techniques are able to be more effective as well as ensure a better result for us.

 

Quit Worrying and Attract More

 

Essentially, when you are worried, you are effectively killing all your creativity, and ability to naturally create. I certainly know for myself that I am happier when I am worry free, and able to then fully concentrate on my various projects at any given time. I know that I am just able to flow, as the saying goes. On the other hand, there was a time when I was very stressed financially, and my creativity went out the window. I spent all my waking hours worried, and nearly got quite sick. I think you can see the point here. I know it was stupid to worry, but I also know it is a natural tendency. I had to work hard to fight it, and overcome it.

 

I think a key word here is to relax, and let ourselves ease through difficult times. Please realise I am not minimising some very challenging problems that people sometimes have to face, but gain, remember that worrying just brings up images of the worst possible scenarios. If we picture the desired outcomes, and imagine them strongly, by concentrating on what we want, we are more able to attract it to us.

 

Does it work first time, and easily? Not always, but with faith and practice, it does work. Remember, these are laws, rather than just ideas. 

 

I also cover this issue on my Elevation CD membership plan where I am speaking, and know that it can help others to overcome their fears and worries too.

 I truly do realise how easy it is to say this but when you let fear and worry go, your greater good comes to you or is attracted to you more easily, because of your ease in accepting it. By worrying, we are effectively shutting the gate of our good to us, and fear acts as a massive filter of good.