Giving Time to the Universe to Serve Up your Desired Attracted Good in Your Life

For many of us, we accept the law exists but are uncertain if it is working for us. Others of us may just think it is all too hard. What about you?


I hope to take this post to a new level, where I can show you that the law can be experienced in your life and show you the results you deserve.


The main point, if you will is that the law, like other universal constants, requires time to weaver its magic. Let me illustrate this point this way…

 

You may decide that you would like to become employed in a given company, and reach a certain level in time. Please note I have used the term 'in time' deliberately, as I am certain that these things need to be put in place. Other events need to fall in pl;ace for this to happen. An example might be that you would need to meet the right person or come into contact with a person already in the company. That person would need to have a situation in his company where he can 'make use' of your skills and be able to integrate you into their overall company picture.

 

You may need to have the knowledge and skills to do the job, or be in a position to learn as you go along. Can you see that various things need to fall into place here. Now, please do not retreat and say it all seems to hard. The fact is the world is a fluid place and these things are happening every day where opportunities are being exploited as they are created and found. It is also about you being able to see an opportunity when it turns up. This is where the Laws of Attraction principles come in.

 

The fact is that for many things to happen with a result that you want. other people are involved, either directly or indirectly and we need them to help us through. Now, this is not the same as being dependent on, but rather about us being able to recognize that things external to us are happening in the world. This is what we mean by the term vibration. The vibration of the universe is very strong for us as we are able to send out thoughts, all day. Those thoughts are powerful, and are like radio beacons. What we think, and then also ct on, creates a series of signals that are sent out into the universe to influence others and situations to work for us. However, these processes take time to filter through, and the wait is always worth while. The secret is to be actively doing the best you can, learning and applying. I have deliberately highlighted the apply word, given that action is key here. I have found that when things do happen, the law of the universe has always made sure the application has been quick, once the process has begun. I found that the situation in my case worked that way, as it has for others. When I was interested in moving to another state and being promoted in my work, the process seemed to take a long time to be accepted. Once it was, 11 months later, the speed with which the actions happened was incredible. I was asked to be interviewed and two weeks later, was presented with the offer.

 

I was told I had two weeks to get ready, (pack up my belongings and move to a new city and state). Once there, I had another week to get organised and was in full swing. The process took a full five weeks from the time I was advised of an interview. I think this illustrates the point in a good example of the law of attraction, I can assure you there are more examples like this one and they happen to people everyday. Why not you too?

 



How To Forgive Others and Yourself?

I suspect that you may have thought about forgiveness as being about forgiving others, but not always yourself. I'm actually going to turn this on its head by suggesting it is more important to forgive ourselves than it is to ask forgiveness from others. In addition, we can forgive others as well in our own internal way, but first, I feel we need to forgive ourselves. Why do I say this?


Forgiving Ourselves


Forgiving ourselves takes precedence because when we are forgiven, we are in a better position to feel that we can then work on forgiving others. However, if we are not 'right within ourselves;, how can we then concentrate on being affective in forgiving others? I know it sounds a little over the top, but it is true. It is very similar to having to love ourselves before we can love others. I know some of you may think this is a selfish view point, and I respect your opinion. However, if you think about it, when you are not able to love yourself, how can you discipate respect and care for others? 

 

Hence, the idea here is to be able to first forgive yourself.


I met a person at a seminar who was in his 70's and was holding some issues against himself for almost 50 years.  Essentially, he was in a car accident with his then wife, and a drunk driver crashed in to them and his wife was killed. He still to this day, nearly fifty years later, held himself responsible. He was shown how to forgive himself, and you could have heard a pin drop in this room, full of three hundred people.


He learned the art of forgiving, and it was only sad that it took that long for him to achieve. 


Imagine living your life in a view point that you are no good and unworthy for fifty years?

I think you can see where I am coming from with this.


I genuinely encourage you to look through the pages on forgiveness and obtaining forgiveness and also seeing the book on forgiving yourself.


You owe it to yourself, and you will also sleep much better too.

Forgiving and Forgetting- A Perspective

I know this is a very important point to consider, given that I have felt an amazing sense of relaxation and rest a day or so ago. What am I talking about? Forgiving and forgetting. You see, I practice what I write about, and I actually did the forgiveness exercise yesterday, and when I actually went to sleep, I felt a peace like I hadn't for quite some time.


I know I have been concentrating a bit lately on forgiveness, because it is so important for all of us to really get the best out of it. 


The laws of attraction work a lot better when we are free of any guilt and fear, as well as anger, in particular.  I know that I went through a time when I was typically very angry and upset as well as being unable to release the anger faster than it was welling up inside me. I know this may sound heavy, but I choose to tell you this, so as to prove that you can heal yourself and your life by choosing to forgive.


Essentially, I had been in a situation where my employment had changed dramatically, and I was also in a new country. I found the cultural change and the circumstances surrounding that change very difficult to deal with.

I spent each day doing my best ( or what I thought was my best), even though I was being held back due to all my anger. I saw that this was not working after a year and decided to really make an effort to resolve the issue.


I looked deep inside myself, by taking the time to reflect and write down everything that was annoying me and affecting my ability to be open to receiving all the good I actually wanted.

 

I finally wrote everything down, and was quite amazed by the size of the list. However, this list is critical to 'get the emotion and anger out' of your system. By following this method, you will not only feel and probably sleep better than you have in a very long while, but rather will leap ahead in bounds. It is just so freeing.


I have included links in the posts to help you see for yourself how forgiveness really helps.

Forgiveness and Forgiving Others Inwardly

I am hoping to share with you the benefits of forgiving others and of reinforcing the importance of this practice, to help you succeed, and be able to move forward in the direction of life you desire.


Whilst some people are incorrectly of the view that forgiveness is about other people, it is more so for you. It is certainly OK to tell someone that you forgive them if you wish to, but overall, it is about you giving yourself permission to forgive yourself.

 

Essentially, by forgiving others and yourself, you are freeing up all th negative energy in your body to flow again as it is designed to do. You will find you feel better, and more of what you want comes to you, or better. The universe is all about the flow of energy and the act of forgiving others and yourself will massively help that flow.

Over Delivering In Life – Your Returns Will Explode

I always talk about over delivering. Giving my clients the best that I possibly can. It really does make a big difference to the end result- I assure you.

I learned this from the people who have taught me, and my experiences, and it is well explained in the Healing of Forgiveness as well.

In addition, while I am side tracked on the issue of forgiveness, may I suggest that you make a point of practicing forgiveness regularly, as it will allow you to perform at your very best.


The reason for suggesting that we practice forgiveness is to make sure that we are free to concentrate all our energies onto our best work, and giving, if you will. Only when we are free of vices and 'small sweat problems', can we be our best. It is also about controlling our emotions sometimes.


I treat all my clients like gold, because I know that when I give to them, they in turn will give to me by coming back over and over again.

 

 

Other relevant sites on forgiveness are below:



The are some sites that will help to provide more information on forgiveness, and its importance.

 

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Forgiveness- A Shift in Perception

Forgiveness is one of those emotions that can move mountains and clear massive boulders from in front of us. However, we need to establish some ways that work to forgive others without having to actually say anything to them directly. Yes, I did say that.

Let me explain a bit here. When things happen to us, sometimes the person who has wronged us knows it, and in some cases, they may not even be aware they have wronged us. As it turns out, it does not really matter, because what actually happens is that we create a great deal of anger, potentially, in ourselves. At this point, we start to internally self destruct. The anger and frustration is lie a cancerous ball developing in us, and we need to understand this phenomenon, to thus control it. 


How often have you found that you have created a situation in your mind, much bigger than the original issue ever was? Be honest. This is not about me- it's about you solving your grievances and moving on, The only way to really move on is to be determined to be clear and effectively erase all the hurt, the anger and the annoyances in our lives.

 

I even know this is easy to say sometimes, but we need to take responsibility here. I call it living above the line, where instead of blaming anybody for anything, we concentrate on the way we react, or better still, respond. I know I have written on the issue of responding before, because it is so important. You need to make sure you are responding and also thinking.


Try this on for size:-


Take a seat, and actually allow yourself some quiet time, and take a blank piece of paper (or more?) and start writing all your grievances, with past, and present issues and people. Put it all on paper. Be honest here as no one else will see this paper. Just get it all out as it were, and write everything that has ever wronged you or you feel angry about. 


After wards, write something along the lines of "I openly forgive and let all this hurt go. I hold no further resentment to anything or anyone".


The above is a very powerful process. After all that, burn the paper and do something else. By doing this process every few months or even weeks if you feel like it, you will develop a habit of emptying all the negative emotions from your system. It can change your life in amazing ways. Just see for yourself after trying it out. 


I learnt this technique from both Catherine Ponder's books and also from the Laws of the universe.